Do you have a few questions after a recent breakup? I have more questions than ever right now!
I was in a relationship that lasted 11 months before it ended in a few months.
I wanted to know how it felt to be in a relationship, to end one, and to be in a new one.
I also wanted to know if I could be happy in a new relationship, just like the last one.
I asked friends and family to hold their judgment until I was sure the person was just like the last one.
I have been in 3 relationships in 6 months and I am finally confident in my relationship.
But wait a minute
1. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
A breakup is not something you can easily pretend as something else.
People who throw themselves at you and stay while they do nothing to deserve your attention, are usually lying.
2. When you are sure the person you are in relationship with is just like the last one, say it to them directly.
You don’t have to tell your friends and family. You can say it to your ex.
3. Never do anything you don’t want to do!
If you do the bare minimum, you will automatically make excuses not to do it.
Nothing is worse than doing something you do want to do and being told by your friends and
family that you are too lazy to do it.
What is it all about?
The key to new relationships is trust. If you start of with trust issues, it is much harder to fix them.
But trust isn’t something you can earn and it isn’t something you can build up.
Trust is something you are already trusting and people in relationships often make
you jump through hoops to earn your trust, yet they won’t show how much they trust you.
People in relationships make you work hard to earn their trust. In short, it is difficult to trust people in a relationship.
If you are feeling uncomfortable in a new relationship, don’t think that you are doing something wrong.
Take a step back, evaluate your relationship and see if you are happy with the way things are.
If not, then look to see what you are going to do to fix things.
If you are unhappy with how things are, then change the way you are and see if they like it.
Trust comes with humility.
You are only as confident as you admit.
I cannot make you confident to change your behavior, but I can get you to change how you show your self.
I am not saying it is easy, but it is doable. If you have enough trust in yourself, then you have more trust in me.
We need not have faith in a relationship, we can have faith in the other people. I can do that and they can do that.
Trust is not earned. It is inherent and there is no trust in a relationship without
a humble mindset and I am a humbled person.
That is the biggest difference between me and the people I talk to who work with relationships.
Trust comes from humility.
You can become humble and trust in a relationship, without it being about me and my righteousness.
I can, with faith, love myself and others. That is the only way to have trust in a relationship.
You can be humbled.
You can have a mindset that you are worth trusting.
It is simple. When you have faith, love, give, respect, trust and grow, then you will love, grow and be loved.
There are not a lot of ways to have a loving relationship, but there are ways to love, respect and trust, as well.
I hope you get started in a relationship to grow.
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