People that renew themselves do so by becoming who they really are, rather than accepting the distorted view of themselves as a lesser version of their true selves.
This is done by becoming aware of what is there rather than accepting what they wish was there. It is done by taking responsibility for themselves rather than giving blame elsewhere.

Being self-aware means being aware of who you are and what you have to offer. It does not mean taking what others say too seriously, because they are often mistaken. This type of self awareness takes confidence because you know you know what you want to do with your life.

Self renewal is about being aware of the true self that you have within you. You renew yourself by letting go of the false self that you have become. Once you let go of this false self you become what you have always had within you. Self renewal is learning to see your true self so you can take responsibility for it. The self renewal process is not change. The change you experience when becoming someone new takes time, because you have to let go of something. Your true self will remain so until you let go of all your limiting beliefs.

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Self renewal is about becoming the fully realized you that you are. It is about knowing your true nature as being fully realized. It is about knowing all that is already done to your body, mind, emotions and soul. This type of self renewal does not involve trying to change others. This is about letting go of what you have not learned to let in.

This type of self renewal does not involve trying to fix yourself. Rather, it is about fixing yourself so that you become what you have always had within you. If you have not let go of the fear you have about letting go, you will continue to not change. Until you let go of the fear and anger that have been planted in your heart, you will not change.

The self renewal process is not easy, but it is worth it.

This process is about releasing the false self that you have become in order to fully realize the true self. People with self renewal seek self renewal by letting go of any self rules they have not lived by, and accepting everyone as being perfect. By accepting everyone as being perfect, it allows the love they had for the wrong things to be allowed to return to return to their heart.

You cannot change others, because you cannot change what is within you.” ~Robert Mooring

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“But, but, but! If I knew what I didn’t know, I would be all better!”

This is a common reason people give for not following their own inner guidance. For an authentic guidance to be applied, you must let it go. It is a common mistake of spirituality to attempt to apply your guidance to yourself. The first of all, you cannot know another person’s truth. That means you must first let go of all other people’s truth before attempting to apply it to yourself. Not doing this will cause you to end up in the same place as before.

You have to learn to allow yourself to love the wrong things of others. This is not doing spirituality. You cannot apply yourself to your own truth until you are able to let go of the false self. And until you can let go of the false self, you cannot apply the guidance to yourself. You have to learn to be patient.

I see spirituality as being in the center of letting go. It is not a matter of doing spirituality. Spiritual practice comes from first opening. From first letting go of the false self. This is not something you can do in a moment. It is not something you can do while under the influence of alcohol or drugs. It takes time. And this is also why it is not something you can master in a moment. You must go through the suffering, the mistakes, the pain of learning it all over again.

The way to be spiritually empowered in the beginning is through letting go of the false self and practicing spirituality. This first practice is allowing a moment to be a moment of freedom. Not a moment where you are still.

It is a moment where you are able to let go of the past and let go of yourself. Allow yourself to be the moment in and of itself. That is the way to go. Letting go of your need to control everything that is happening, letting go of your need to take control, letting go of your need to be the center. This is spiritual empowerment. This is the way to empower yourself.

As it is a way of going within, you are more then able to go beyond. A moment in and of itself is a moment of freedom. That is why it is beyond the scope of spirituality to be the center. However, being the center of attention and not being the center of attention is within the realm of spirituality.

Wandji Nguemako
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