Men have such an intimidating way of showing love and devotion. It’s never easy,
it’s never natural and we have such a way of being inadequate when it comes to showing it.
We don’t often want to show love when we don’t feel it,
and we’re always trying to prove ourselves and what we’re worth to women.
We deserve to receive
It’s so important to know that it’s alright to give love, and
it’s important to know that it’s also important to receive.
Women have so many wonderful qualities, and yet
we end up having an entirely different perception of what men find attractive.
I find it really frustrating and it’s something I’ve worked hard at in my life,
and my relationships, to understand men.
In the beginning of relationship
Women are the ones who get lost in the physical aspect of the relationship and
forget to let their partners have their own personalities.
We try and change them to suit our own needs and wants,
but this comes at a huge price to the relationship.
In the beginning of a relationship with a man, we’re desperate to let him know how much he means to us.
We show him love in a variety of ways, but by far and away the most common is through sex.
We can’t help ourselves!
We find the one man we think will completely fulfill us, and we don’t think twice about having him satisfy us.
And because we’re so invested in this union, we do whatever it takes to ensure it works.
And while we’re doing all that we’re letting him know how much he means to us.
But he’s doing more than just meeting our needs. He’s fulfilling our needs as well.
He’s bringing us happiness and pleasure. And we’re letting him know how much he’s fulfilling us.
He’s always in our thoughts, is constant in our thoughts.
And no matter how stressful the relationship is, how bad we’re feeling,
we can’t help but feel the strong connection that we have with him. We cannot get away from him.
When you look at the statistics,
you’ll notice that while women tend to be the ones who want to leave relationships more easily,
they’re also more likely to reevaluate things once they get past the easy part.
Men, on the other hand, aren’t that likely to be reevaluating things once they’ve been together awhile.
The fact is, once you’ve fallen hard for someone, you’re usually committed.
You may be miserable and unhappy, but once you’ve convinced
yourself that it’s worth it, you won’t make any effort to take it apart.
And when you do take it apart, it’s likely to be because
you’re trying to make a connection with someone else.
If you’re a bit reluctant to take it apart and decide to do it piece by piece,
you’re more likely to wind up with a guy who won’t be able to take it apart.
The key to unlock it all
The key is to make him realize that you’re worth all the effort to get into a relationship with you.
This takes a lot of effort on his part, and all you have to do is stay committed to him.
By staying committed to him, he’ll see that you’re worth all the effort.
He’ll get to see you in a variety of situations and he’ll be able to see that you’re the woman
who has character that won’t allow you to be bad, bad tempered or rude to him.
He’ll see that you won’t treat him bad or rudely, but he’ll also know that he can get along just fine with you.
I am worth all the effort and more
He’ll realize that he should be doing all he can to make you happy.
When he can keep you happy, he’ll be more willing to take the relationship further.
The more you keep him happy, and safe of making him realize that you’re worth all the effort,
the more he’ll stay in love with you.
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